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They're not provoking rape, but they're provoking attention. That suggested they've got no control, or little control, over their own sexuality, which is ludicrous. Not at all, because you know some women want to be noticed sexually. But they don't want to be raped. If a woman is murdered by her husband, and his defence is that she was provoking him, we know these men get lots and lots of sympathy in the court and often they're given reduced sentences. And surely that's the same kind of attitude, when we talk about women dressing provocatively. No, I said they may have been inadvertently provoking attention. There's incredible pressure on young girls to dress in a certain way so they match their peer groups, and that can leave them vulnerable.
Why are they vulnerable? What does it say about society? But I'm just facing up to the reality that if you're dressed up like a teenage hooker, you're wandering around late at night, you're drunk, you are probably less in a position to protect yourself against attack than you might otherwise be. Now is that right? But is it fact? But it's almost an excuse for men. I'm a lesbian; I've never dressed for men. I've always dressed in a classic feminist style, the ill-fitting jeans etc. And that's not something that you're going to see on the SlutWalk.
But when I've been attacked by men it's because I'm a lesbian, I'm not sexually available to them, and they take offence at the fact that I'm not dressing for them. How would we explain that? It's important as a woman, as a girl, when you're growing up, to experiment with different looks. When I dressed as a teenage slut I felt sexy, I felt grown-up, cool, I had hot pants, platforms — I loved it. I was innocent, though, I wasn't prepared for the trigger that would happen in the men. Yes, dress however you want, but be aware it can trigger things in other people which you cannot control. That's a terribly sad indictment of masculinity today. Why aren't we telling men: Rather than women celebrating this misogynistic term "sluttiness".
What is different about what the Canadian police officer said and what police officers have said through time immemorial when killers and serial rapists are on the loose, which is: What's different from what the chief constable of West Yorkshire said during the Yorkshire Ripper reign to this Canadian police officer? Men are the ones harming women. I have two words: I do think women have become objectified, but that is a separate point. Society does not say don't rape, it says don't get raped. Everywhere you look, the onus is on the woman to not experience harassment, and there's very little to say, actually we condemn rape.
That shows this attitude is extremely dangerous. The fact that Shaista can cover it up and get respect is great for her as an individual, but for a gender I think it's terrible. I don't cover up to please men, I do this for myself. I don't think that a woman should cover up and then get respect, I think women should be respected. But maybe there's an issue with young women respecting themselves, being empowered, being told, you can dress however you want, but don't maybe put all the emphasis on how you dress. You see lots of girls going to school and they look like they've just come out of a nightclub. I wonder why all that emphasis has to be put on how you look. It's very sad that a man gets up, goes out the door the way he rolled out of bed, and a girl spends ages trowelling on the makeup and putting on the heels.
While she has the right to, should she feel obliged to? SlutWalk is about that. We all agree there, but this march, and taking it out of Canada, bringing it to the UK, might actually skew the message. It'll have male support and spectators because men are more interested in looking at women dressed in a sexualised fashion than they are in stopping rape. When I lecture, and men come to me and say, "I want you to know I'm not like that", I say to them, "Good. Why are you telling me? Go and tell your peers. They know that babies get raped, elderly women get raped, lesbians get raped.
They're not threatened at all. We need to threaten men, we need to say to them: Is the word slut offensive? Or should women reclaim it, celebrate it? Most words are neutral, it's the context. It's the person using them, it's the power they have and how you wish to take it. These women want to reclaim this word, and use it ironically, to take the power to harm out of it. I remember when slut meant you're a slob, look at the state of your house. There's a slightly cartoon element to the word slut, and I wouldn't necessarily be offended if someone used it about me, depending on who they were.
I get the irony of it, but I don't think that many girls growing up, who've been terribly harmed by this word, are going to get the joke. It excludes women who have been defined by this word, including the thousands in prostitution who do not want to be there.
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If we leave it alone, aren't we leaving them with the power to use that against us? So surely it's better to do something to make steps towards reclaiming it. Isn't it the use of the word? If Sluts in great offley treat, say, whore, would we be calling it the whore walk? I've heard offley word slut used a lot of times in conjunction with gay men — "Oh, he's such a slut" — so it works both ways. All the women that I've talked to about SlutWalk are like, "Yeah, we want to go, we want to go" — they really like the idea of it.
The humorous side of SlutWalk makes the whole thing feel good, a celebration. They're not thinking about the men, they're thinking about the camaraderie of the women and the empowerment of their femininity. I'd much rather subvert men's behaviour than subvert a word, but in one way it sounds like great fun. I'm really pleased it's happening, although I really, really, hate its label. And I hate the fact that it's going to be men who will enjoy it far more than a lot of the participants. But this is in response to rape, isn't it? I mean it's not a party, it shows women are deeply concerned about the fear and reality of rape. And that's what's fantastic about it, it's women, young, older, going out together and saying we've had enough.
If there's one thing great about calling it SlutWalk it's that it's given us the chance to sit around and talk about this as an issue. This is getting like national and international news coverage, which Reclaim the Night hasn't managed to get, unfortunately. I don't think it's just men that we're sending this message to, because other women have passed judgment on me and on others for what somebody has worn, or they've heard about a rape case and said, "Oh, but I heard she went home with him", you know, "she led him on". It's challenging attitudes in general, not just rapists.
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